Internet has dramatically changed the way we communicate, as it´s made it easier to meet people for friendship, sex or relationship. It´s safer than picking up outdoors, however it also makes some people lose their inhibitions and allows them to adopt a “second personality”. Find below some tips to consider: 

• Chat or exchange messages and phone numbers before meeting up. Talk to the person on the phone beforehand. Do not meet up with anyone who gives their phone number and eventually gives you a hidden call. 
  

• Write down on a piece of paper where you´re going, plus all information you´ve gathered about the person you´re about to meet (profile name, phone number, real name). If possible share that information with someone reliable.
  

• Negotiate in advance what you fancy doing, what you´re going to use and where you´re going to do it. Lay boundaries, respect them and have yours respected.
  

• Don´t give anyone your address; before taking a stranger home, meet them in a public place.
  

• Don’t meet up with anyone who either doesn´t show their face on a picture, doesn´t give you their phone number or any other usual information. If the person’s looks don’t fit their previous self-description do not carry on, as boundaries have already been broken.
  

• If someone uses your pics, threatens or insults you on internet, you must report it. The police operates a Technological Crime Unit which specialises on investigating and solving such cases.
  

• Take your own condoms, lube or any other item you may need; this will avoid any unsafe sex situations.